i want to live in a world, when my husband comes home and tells me he slept with someone because he was overcome by some deep evolutionary need to spread his seed, i would find it funny. and when i tell him i met someone who could make me come when he looks at me, then he doesn't throw an unholy tantrum. maybe we could find this funny, and laugh about it. uncivilized? french? organic? i dont know. i yearn for freedom though. mukta.