dont become a robot, on drugs, doing, moving forward and being self obsessed. go to india, spend time with family and friends. be soft hearted. do things slowly. don't get bloated and try to do too many things. slow and steady is always better. don't apologize for taking your time and being your own person. dont blame people for not being able to work with you. be happy, be generous, give love, be humble. just chill chill just chill.